It has almost been one month since we've moved to Blacksburg. Already this city and the church has become home to us. As I mentioned earlier (I think), I am the first full time priest the parish has had in almost 10 years, so there is tons of work to do. During this first month I have gotten a lot done here, and in the next month I hope to do more. The goal, however, is to develop lay leaders to expand the work and ministries of the parish. I would also like to get more sacerdotal help as well at some point. The reason I want to do this is that work of church cannot expand with one person doing it. Leaders have to develop other leaders.
We live in the church - in the parish hall, actually (pictured above). It is called "Rutherfoord Hall", named for an ACC bishop who was instrumental in helping start the parish and also an accomplished fine artist. It is not a classic parish hall, with one large room, and several smaller ones. Instead it consists of a bunch of small rooms. When this was St. Mary's Catholic Church, the hall was where the clergy (up to three) and the housekeeper lived. So there are three small rooms with their own bathrooms and showers; an office; a parlor; and the apartment where we live (where the housekeeper once lived) - which consists of a bedroom and bath, a kitchen, a living room, and a sun room (one of Valerie's offices - she has another where she works at VA Tech). The building is divided in half by a long hallway, so it is rather dark. There is no a/c in the building, and the windows are these large, metal casement windows. It has hardwood floors, but they have been covered up by carpeting except in a few places. As an apartment and offices, it is a fine hall, but as a "dinner/gathering hall" it is not functional. There is no place where everyone in the parish can eat together for dinners, and such. We need, down the road, to knock down some walls, or add a level to the hall if we hope to grow. We also need to dramatically improve the lighting. A comprehensive parish vision and strategic plan that I hope we can develop will help us in deciding what improvements to the existing facility need to be made and when.
Some may wonder what it is like to live in the church. Well, I love it! It's small, but I like the concept of always "being there" and "being available". Interestingly, the church has done a complete 180 with me: previously they had a priest coming in once or twice a week, so the place was always closed. Now, the priest is always here, so it is always open. I can walk down the hall to my office whenever I want, so no worries about "remembering to bring something home from work". The hall connects to the sacristy and church, so, of course, I can go in and pray whenever I want. There are also no worries about getting to church late, or having to get up at the crack of dawn to drive to church for an 8:00 mass. No one really bothers us by coming by all the time, but honestly we are the type of people who love it when folks just drop by (some people are not), so it wouldn't bother me if people came by just to hang out. In fact, I hope to encourage that in order to build community.
Since we live here I am able to get to know everyone in the neighborhood (residents and students). I see them walking around, and I always stop to chat with them. It is a way to build bridges and relationships for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I have recently begun going to the neighborhood association meetings, which also helps me get to know people. I want to make sure the parish and her interests are represented in this neighborhood. Also, when the church expands and grows, I want the people in the neighborhood to be on our side.
The church has been without a full time priest for so long that it has not had an "advocate" when it's needed one. So for example, a sign of ours on Main Street was torn down a few years back, and it was never replaced. And also, the city changed our parking signs, and no one ever did anything about it. And on, and on. But now that I am the "father" of the parish, and live here, all of that is going to change. I will fight for this church and these people, and for the faith once delivered to the saints.
(Note: The parish has had dedicated laity over the years, including one man who was very devoted to the parish and did a lot for them, so I do not want to downplay their contributions and leadership. The commuting vicars also were as dedicated as they could be considering the circumstances, so neither do I want to downplay their important contributions.)
Being the "father" of the parish is my central metaphor or slogan, or what have you. This parish is my family, and God has placed me here to be their spiritual father. Thus, as I would fight for my own family, and care for them, so I will do that for St. Francis. That is how every priest needs to view his ministry, I guess. It really transforms the reason and way you do your work. Many parishes, just like natural families, suffer from "absentee fathers"... men who aren't around, or just aren't engaged, or are merely collecting a pay check. Even in some of our continuing parishes!
Well, have to run and shower and pray. Today is my day off, and as usual all I am thinking about is church, church, church! I promise I will post pictures soon.
